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There is no way to isolate ourselves mistakes. You can memorize everything you can spend magna cum laude, and more degrees than a thermometer ... I still make mistakes. No one is immune. There is no vaccine. There is no pill to make you perfect. Get up and know that you are pretty anyway. There is no formula for a perfect life. In fact, did you know there are two kinds of happiness knew! (You do, but you were probably not even aware of.) And how happiness is all wrong. Let happiness-in-the-moment, so we should go for happiness-in-the-memory happy poems .
What is amazing (that measured this) is that my happiness-in-the-moment can be larger, but my happiness-in-the-memory which is most important for my overall sense of well-being. IE can go through a terrible experience, but if I can remember in a positive way, the experience gives a feeling of happiness. And it is this memory of happiness is more important that I give my life, as if he is happy or not. On the contrary, we can be happy about something at the time, but if we do not remember in a happy way, that can ruin the whole experience. We already know. We have a term for this: "buyer's remorse". ... "The honeymoon period" ... "seemed like a good idea at the time." I can be very happy right now, but I remember that in a negative light, all the momentary joy is meaningless. And we can be enjoying and experience and having a great old time, but if it was ruined at the last second, the whole experience was ruined. We were happy with 99% of cases. But that 1% because it was the last one percent, makes or breaks happy poems.
Is not it funny how our minds work?
Here's the guy who did the science behind it:
There was a ski trip that my family should take a year where everything went wrong. Our plane was delayed for several hours, so we do not go on the field until about midnight. We were all children at the time, we were exhausted. When we finally squeezed into the rental car, the first to start. So we have everything on, say in the next rental car, only to find once we left the lot (of course), that the gas gauge was not working. Third car rentals, and we are finally on the right track, but to go through so many errors and injustices on the trip (the hot water heater in our, the replacement disk unit self-destructed we got wouldn Door 't close ...) that just pleasure. It was so absurd and so was bad we ended up laughing all at the end. It was something National Lampoon family vacation. And if it was the feast of hell, we still laugh about it today. At the time, we were unhappy. We were happy about it since happy poems.
I have the power to be happy with all my memories, if I want. It is true that there are bad memories that are likely to remain poor. Hot does not mean still warm, and the fire burns ... But even if the experience was terrible, I must remind the terrible experience. College was very difficult for me constantly full of stress, financial worries, poor health and experience of almost constant performance anxiety. But I'm through. And I can look back with pride all that experience, but I'm a mess right now. The same for my health experiences. They are horrible to go! But when the victory of the other side, I can look back and be proud of myself to go through all this. I ,, bright white scars clearly visible on the face of the fight MRSA (which nearly killed me). But I do not hide the scars with makeup. You should know that I was going battle. I am proud, I survived. Scars tell the story happy poems .
I can not even help write the story of happiness soon. I can look at my life and think, "Now when I look back now, this will I be grateful?" Thinking about my life in those terms, I can not get happiness in the future, and experience a taste of it now. For me, even if I am desperately trying to return to a "normal" life, I look back at this moment and be thankful for all the research I could do. I got to let my wandering curiosity and pursue what is fascinating and I find amazing things (including video above). From memory, I know now is more important than experience, I can see my life I remember, then the experience is not that difficult. Right now, right now, you can break anything you want, if I remember with joy, that is what counts. I can break in many ways, but I do remember is my pleasure, that's what matters happy poems.
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