To determine whether romantic love is necessary for happiness, we must first define the difference between romantic love and the love of friends and family. The word love implies a somewhat ethereal quality, and the company, a relationship is considered today to include an aspect of sexual desire. Merriam-Webster Collegiate Dictionary defines romance as "marked by expressions of love or affection" and "favorable or convenient to make love."
On that basis, I see romantic love to include definitions basic hooks love as "the willingness to extend himself in order to feed their own or another's spiritual growth" (hooks, 4) including "care , affection, recognition, respect, commitment and trust and open and honest communication "(5). Romantic love, I believe, goes beyond the love in general, however, and usually includes an element of sexual desire. It is romantic love always involves passion, or may be more stable? My first tendency is to believe that romantic love is such because of the element of passion, without passion, love is just the same as love is the same as the love shared with friends or family. Moreover, two people may be perceived as being in a loving relationship without sexual desire element to another. Like all other kinds of love, I think that those who are in a relationship of romantic love strives to make your partner happy and help their partners achieve all the good in every way, they are able.
I think the distinguishing feature between the love of a friend, and romantic love, most likely, is exclusivity. In other words, someone believed to be in a loving relationship if he or she acts this way only one person. Unlike the friendly love, these feelings of love combined with sexual desire can not be addressed with a person if it is to be considered as a romantic love relationship."happy poems"
Romantic love involves quality fairytale like and very necessary for happiness. Romance is how we, as human beings, to escape the hardships of daily life in modern society. In romantic love, we find someone close to ourselves, which helps us become a better person. [Note: there will be more here]
The dream stereotype in our culture is grown, married, have a happy family, and live in a big house with a white picket fence. While not everyone loves the house and children, how many people do not want the romantic-love relationship? Ideally, this relationship is clear from what John Welwood called a "soul connection." Soul connection is defined as "a resonance between two people who meet the essential beauty of all other individual natures, behind their facades, and are connected to a deeper level." This connection of the soul, they believe, is the latest and most stable for a romantic love relationship foundation. Regarding the soul, the two individuals involved are close together, regardless of their conscious will. In a relationship based on connecting the soul, the two people fall deep love, which they understand and fully respect and admire all the other aspects of being.
The idea that everyone will find the true romantic love in life is foolish. Many people spend their lives looking for the perfect person for them, and miss other potentially good relationships. The truth of this is that in today's society, few people find their ideal partner, "the one." Many people are deceived by the idea that when the perfect combination for a romantic relatioship happens, everything will be perfect and simple. This, however, could not be further from the truth. Even hooks admits that "true love has to do with work" (183). Is it really worth all the effort to have a romantic love relationship? All major components of a romantic love relationship can fulfulled by other relationships.
Romantic love is useless to live a happy and fulfilling life. In the book of Bell Hooks All About Love, addresses many other kinds of love, romantic love also. Hooks explains that before another type of relationship, you need love. I think this pride can replace a component of romantic love. In romantic love, the two people they love and respect the full nature of the other. A confident, stable person, however, should be satisfied with the fact that they like what they are as a person, and should not feel the need for others to let them know what "good" a person they are.
In addition, hooks discusses the incredible importance of love in friendship. In friendship, we give an ally in difficult times, and someone to share their wealth in good times. Similarly, a romantic partner must be a "sounding board" in bad times, and certainly someone to share their good times. Here we see that a strong friendship can change the appearance of the support of a romantic love relationship.
Finally, Merriam-Webster Collegiate Dictionary defines romance as "favorable or convenient to make love." [The fact?] This property is no longer exclusive to romantic love. The typical thought of our society is that sex is the most appropriate in a romantic context, if not necessary. If one is not romantic love relationship is always possible to satisfy the sexual desires, but based on lust, not romantic love. Therefore, another aspect of a romantic love relationship can be satisfied otherwise. [More anti-love story]
In conclusion, romantic love is certainly a good thing to have if one is able to find, but is essential to a happy life. As I said, all the beneficial aspects of a romantic love relationship can get other relationships with other people. Furthermore, it is possible to have a "soul connection" with someone deeper without persuing the connection in a romantic context.
I think people who are able to have a romantic relationship based on true love are very lucky. I also believe, however, that people should not spend their lives persuing the dream of romantic love. I think as connections romantic love and romantic relationships soul partners often encountered than expected.
I think other kinds of love are far more important than romantic love. I think more energy should be put on the love of family and friends, and love yourself. It seems that we often seek a relationship when they are unhappy or dissatisfied with themselves, and need someone else to assert their positive qualities. Hooks think is absolutely right that we should focus on them before going to love other kinds of relationships.
In essence, I believe that romantic love is a kind of "extra" in life. By this I mean that we must remain focused on other kinds of love, but not close the possibility of a romantic love relationship. If one is in a relationship of perfect romantic love, I think you should consider himself very lucky to be one of the few to achieve this higher level of love."happy poems"
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